An idea that strikes the mind evolves from the spirit, except when it is inspired by one other thing. This idea's evolution remains as unique as the spirit itself. Thus, once an idea evolves from unidentified inspiration, it becomes unique. When it gets stored in the mind, like all good ideas it tries to ventilate itself. Here we go...
An idea is most commonly communicated by words. Words are beautiful, but when it comes to expression of the spirit or the idea itself, words prove to be disastrous. The idea gets diluted and parts of the idea are missed out or perhaps messed up due to the monstrous library of words that ebb out when words are used. So ideas are never entirely expressed except when they are communicated without words, which is an impossibility.
The same thing happens when ideas are recieved by word. The mind reads the idea but it is interpreted in a different frequency by the spirit. It means that each spirit interprets an idea differently. The beauty lies in the fact that when the original idea is formulated, the concept appears different to each spirit but the idea manages to remain one and unique.
Even in an arguement, each has a different angle of looking at the problem. So neither of them will succeed in convincing the other. Remember this and there will not be anymore arguements in life.
And one more thing, it is always better to understand what the spirit says than to depend on words IF it is possible.